In years past I would have blogged about each of these things individuallly because they were part of my everyday experiences and I would have wanted to share them. Because I haven’t blogged regularly for quite awhile, though, I missed the opportunity to share these with you when they occurred. I’d still like to share them because they were interesting experiences!
Hosting Tea for a Friend I’ve been a collector of “tea things” for several years, but oddly enough, I’m not a huge tea drinker. (I know, it’s weird, right??) Still, I do enjoy a cup occasionally. I have been Facebook friends with a sweet gal named Robin for quite some time, but we never created an opportunity to meet in person – until January of 2022 when I hosted “tea time” for her! The occasion was simple – I was down-sizing a bit of my dinnerware collection, and she had a good cause she invited me to donate some of them to. She was willing to come pick them up, making the donation an absolutely easy YES for me – so I invited her to come for tea!
Some very lovely “tea things” that I just don’t use very often!
A simple menu to keep it low-stress for me. And yes, “no-bake cheesecake” is indeed the Jell-O kind! 😀
We enjoyed a trio of tea treats and “choice” from the basket of Twining’s individual tea selections, and a solid two hours of wonderful conversation. As we wound things down she took my donated dishes out to her vehicle with the promise of sharing them with refugee families in need – it was a lovely way to spend a Sunday afternoon!
Jury Duty
Also in the category of new experiences – jury duty! I’ve actually been called for jury duty three times. The first time, I had just turned 18 and was a newly registered voter. I was interviewed to serve on a medical malpractice trial, but excused. The second time I was in my mid-forties and although I appeared at the courthouse as scheduled, I was not selected to be interviewed.
Well, third time’s a charm apparently – in January I was called, interviewed, and selected to serve. I know people generally abhor being called for jury duty, and strive to get out of it. But this was not my attitude. At one point, after everyone had been interviewed, the judge began calling out juror numbers and asking us to stand. I assumed we were going to be dismissed and escorted out. But instead he said, “Mr. Prosecutor, is this your jury?” The reply, “Yes your honor.” In my mind I literally thought “Wait – what??” Then, “Mr. Defense Attorney, is this your jury?” The reply, “Yes, your honor.” It seems silly to say it, but I got a bit choked up. In that moment I realized I’d been given a serious responsibility, and even though the trial involved relatively minor criminal offenses, I felt that our defendant deserved full and thoughtful consideration of the facts and testimony, by jurors who understand that restricting someone’s liberty is a very big deal indeed. Yes, it was an inconvenience – especially having become as spoiled as I have working from home and no longer facing a morning commute into the downtown area – but it was absolutely an experience worth having.
I took a break from my tablescaping hobby for much of the year, once the gardening season really got going, but “re-booted” in time for Fall and Halloween. I bought a new-to-me dining table for my eat-in kitchen in March – this was a consignment store find, and it came with two leaves for expansion if needed. Still trying to talk myself into matching chairs… I love my little mismatched farmhouse chairs, but if I find the perfect French Country matched set at a great price, I could be persuaded.
Look at those sexy curved legs!
First tablescape at the new table was set for two, featuring Martha Stewart Everday dinner plates, Christopher Stuart “Melody Hill,” and flatware by Wallace called “Napoleon Bee.”
Here are some sneak peeks at the tables I set this year – I’ll do full posts on these eventually. It’s time for Thanksgiving and Christmas ideas already!
I started using my grandmother’s “Flair” silverplate in table settings this year – this pattern is from 1959 and is by 1847 Rogers Brothers. The first table I set with it used my powder-blue “fairytale chargers” and Homer Laughlin Eggshell Georgian “Marilyn” dinnerware.
I have a pretty good-sized collection of Heisey Glass in Sahara Yellow, but I’ve never used it. I set this Spring table with some April Cornell napkins, a bedsheet tablecloth, and green as the coordinating color.
St. Patrick’s Day table featured Haviland Limoges with a shamrock border, and Edwin Knowles dinner plates, set atop burnished-gold chargers. Each place setting included its own little pot of gold!
Classic Johnson Brothers “Rose Chintz” played well with Fire King swirl salad plates for a late-Spring table.
Inspired by the great Maggie Smith as the Dowager Countess in “Downton Abbey,” I set an elegant gold-themed table using “Rosemead” by Mikasa and wide-shouldered gilded dinner plates that are unfortunately umarked.
Speaking of gilded… in March I acquired a wonderful book by food historian Suzanne Corbett called “The Gilded Table.” It features a historic house/museum in St. Louis called Campbell House, including recipes that were prepared for family and guests in this Gilded Age high-society home. I set this table as an homage to Mrs. Campbell, the lady of that house during its social heyday.
For Halloween I had a little fun with Dollar Tree dinner plates and restaurant salad plates that gave off a spider web vibe.
I used Hutschenreuther “Maple Leaf” – and two different iterations of Kings Crown Thumbprint glassware – on this subtley-hued Fall table.
Going for a sort of French Country vibe with this one… I bought the tablecloth on a Saturday, and quickly realized I had no dinnerware to go with it. So I went back out on Sunday, and found four dinner plates for a dollar each in the perfect color.
When the theme is Autumn Abundance, count on Johnson Brothers “Windsor Fruit” to convey the message along with a whole patch of handmade velvet pumpkins 🙂
Now that all my tables for the year are rounded up in one post, it does feel like I did more than I originally thought. And even if dining alone, I try to always use a pretty plate and placemat – they may not be full tablescapes, but they do give an added lift even to simple meals. And of course, I enjoy adding to my stash of dinnerware and table elements using secondhand and inexpensive finds from thrift, consignment, and discount stores!
For the past few years I’ve been working on building a walk-through garden in the sideyard between my house and garage, and this year I got a lot closer to that goal. I joined together two flower beds by the house that created an actual path flanked by beds on both sides, and started to fill the new joined bed with perennial plants. I added a beautiful cement statue to one of the beds, and for a backdrop I used a printed fabric shower curtain that features a scene from an “old world” villa. It looks amazing when photographed! I’ve done pretty well establishing perennials all over the property, and filling in with annuals where color was needed. Flowerbeds on either side of my front door also looked lush and healthy all season, and I had fresh mum and sunflower blooms as late as the first week of November. Here are a few photos from the garden this year!
Statuary in the new stroll-through garden. I think the shower curtain backdrop was a brilliant idea, shared by a friend over on Instagram!
My stroll-through area with gifted seating at the far end sits between the house and garage. This was right after adding the mulch to the new connected beds on the right – I began to fill in with plants shortly after, so next year it’s going to look full!
This bed near the front door did the best job of showing off color in all three seasons, thanks to the long-blooming Coreopsis “Moon Glow” at the back, Balloon Flower at the front, large hardy mums over to the left (not in bloom in this photo), and seasonally updated cement planters.
My “Knockout Rose” lived up to it name with gorgeous blooms in June, followed by an influx of Japanese Beetles in July, followed by a major cut-back and incredible re-bloom in Fall. The photo above is from October!
Here are a few “random bloom” shots just for fun…
Lobelia and bright pink petunias in a curb-picked 10-gallon vintage crock.
Tradescantia (Spiderwort) “Sweet Kate” – I planted three of these last year and they came back very strong!
Blush-pink peony “Sarah Bernhardt” – this one doubled in size from last year and had six gorgeous blooms this year!
Curb-picked statuary surrounded by Bachelors’ Buttons – all re-seeded from last year.
As the walk-through garden in back took shape, the view from the front steps became increasingly inviting!
One of the things I like about gardening in Iowa is that Winter is “break time.” I’m always ready for a rest both mentally and physically by October, and then by February I’m ready to get started again. I already have a “seed plan” for next year!
Hi friends! Well once again I seem to have gone most of the year without doing ANY blog posts – save for one, back in January. I am determined to do better in hopes that my blog truly becomes a place where you can derive some inspiration for your home, garden, thrifting adventures, DIY’s, and just “living lovely” in general.
I’ll be sharing a few round-up posts to get us all caught up together, and then resume some sort of regular blogging. In the meantime, I’d love to hear from you! What have you been up to this year in home decorating, tablescaping, gardening, thrifting/antiquing, DIY, self-care, and all those home-artsy things? Please share in the comments!